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the devotional alchemy of union

the art of loving well

Where relationship becomes a sacred practice, and that practice becomes a living portal for expansion.


Every relationship is its own ceremony, equal parts tenderness and truth, invitation and initiation.


Let's be real.  

Love is not a destination. 

It’s a living, breathing, ever-evolving devotional act…
with twists and turns, seasons and cycles, deaths and rebirths,
the sacred and the silly, the holy and the profane.  The sometimes awkward and awful.


And when it comes to relationship, most of us were never truly taught how to love well, ourselves included.
We learned to survive, to perform, to protect, to fawn, but not always how to communicate well, repair after rupture, or stay open through change.


We inherited patterns and stories, but rarely the tools for sincere intimacy, bold honesty, and expansive union.

Few of us were initiated into the art of ending well—of bringing grace and respect to closure when love changes form.


The truth is, most of us are feeling our way through it, a lil clumsy, a little blind, heart sailing in the wind, doing the best we can with what we’ve been given.  That’s why this work exists, to offer a meeting ground for love in all its forms: rooting, rekindled, reimagined, or released.  It’s an invitation to walk with compassion, humility, and courage wherever truth leads.


Here, we unlearn the ways we’ve gone numb, been misguided, or lost our way, and we remember the wisdom of the sacred, sensual current that runs beneath both conflict and comfort.  


Our exploration becomes the ache, the curiosity, the erotic intelligence that makes evolution irresistible instead of daunting.


I serve love and what brings people to life. I am here to help love find its way, 

and also to name when love's absence is asking for honesty.

I’m a trauma-informed somatic practitioner devoted to helping you reach the places words can’t, into the muscle memory where old stories still live, so that what’s stagnant can finally move and life-force and vitality can flow.


I’ve supported couples through reconciliation, recommitment, and intentional uncoupling alike. 

I speak directly and lovingly into what I see, the dynamics, the energetics, the illusions, and invite personal evolution, desire & vision to emerge.


I will celebrate with you, sit with you in the shadows, and name what needs naming with gentleness.
This work is about collective care.  About restoration of personal and unified power. 

About being a beaming human alive and well on this planet, thriving.

My loyalty is to life, to love, and to the wholeness of you and your union—whatever form that ultimately takes.

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the way i hold this work

in service to love & life itself...

I walk with couples who are ready to bring consciousness, clarity, courage, humility, responsibility, action, reverence, and playfulness into their relationship.  


I am here for those willing to boldly meet both the beauty and the grit of the bond they share.  Who are here to lead and be led in love.


These paths are for the seasoned relationship or the one just beginning to root and bloom.

  

I also offer personal 1:1 mentorship for those walking outside of union at this time to integrate history, embody earned wisdom, and prepare fertile ground for what (and who) shall come next.


When partners choose the devoted path of evolution, 

we usually work in 3, 6, or 9 month arcs.
Each month includes 3 Sessions:

One individual session with each partner

One joint session together


This rhythm allows each of you to explore what’s alive individually and then weave those insights together in shared space.


So much of what we carry in relationship isn’t personal, it’s ancestral, cultural, or the residue of old wounding replaying in present time. What often surfaces as conflict is rarely about what’s happening now; it’s often the echo of earlier stories, the younger, or more entangled versions of self and love that are still seeking healing.


By tending some of that work independently, you free one another from the impossible task of trying to heal what predates the relationship, or what has quietly woven itself into its foundation.


From that fresh vantage point, your side of the aisle becomes clearer. You begin to see yourself, your patterns, and your partner with new eyes.

And from there, you can build something truly shared. One rooted in vision, choice, compassion, and genuine connection.


$750 per month // $2100 3 months // $4200 6 months // $6200 9 months

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alternative pathways to session work

ceremony

digital support

digital support

  Sometimes words and thoughts can’t reach what the body already knows. Ceremony begins where language ends—where breath becomes prayer, touch becomes truth, life’s animus stirs awake, and endings bless beginnings.
Together, we shape a living ritual that meets what’s real: the longing, the forgiveness, the rekindling. It’s where devotion meets desire, where truth and tenderness dance.

Ceremony can stand alone or follow a series of sessions, offering a tangible way to anchor your evolution.


$750 half day // $1500 full day

digital support

digital support

digital support

Some couples choose to stay connected through ongoing digital mentorship, where we exchange voice notes and messages in a private chat space, as individuals or partners.
This path supports those navigating frequent transitions, micro-shifts, or long-distance seasons, allowing real-time reflection and integration between sessions.  This option is for folks who would benefit from ongoing accountability, vision and focus, and feedback to breakthrough the dross and loops.  Support is offered in 1 to 3 month blocks.


$1000/month

Why ongoing support matters

Relationships thrive when tended consistently.
It’s always easier to grow from a place of health and curiosity than to repair from crisis or contraction.
Think of this as preventative medicine for your partnership, nourishment that keeps love resilient, honest, and alive.

Like any living system, love needs tending.
Continued support keeps your connection clear, grounded, and thriving.

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work with me

work with me

if you know this is the path, go ahead & book your session now.

Sessions are 90-minutes on zoom and $333.

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my ethos & commitment

I delight in taking couples to the heart of the matter.
All of you is welcome here.

I serve love and the truth that sustains it.
Sometimes that means rekindling devotion; sometimes it means naming when the path is complete.
I have guided couples through reconciliation, recommitment, and conscious uncoupling alike, and always 

with reverence, integrity, and fierce devotion to growth beyond this moment.

My role is to see clearly, speak honestly, and hold compassion without collusion.
I walk beside you in the beauty and the breaking, celebrating what’s alive and naming what’s ready to be released.

My loyalty is to life, to love, and to the wholeness of you and your union—whatever form that ultimately takes.

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